So let me get this straigh, since I have the dreaded XY combo, i am more likely to be a rapist/abuser/molester. Well the XX combo is more likely to kill your own child. the actions of a person, tend to be governed by external stimulus. Most Men do not play the guilt/emotion game as well as woman, and so react with the fight/flight action, my ex-wife used the ever popular leave now, and don't come back. I loved her "at the time" and wasn't prepared to lose the relationship, in the end she shtupped some guy while on a trip. Wish I hadn't blown three years on her, just glad that we didn't have kids.
just another pilot wrote:There was a time when the word "man" evoked images of husband and father, breadwinner, warrior, protector, and adventurer. Now? Well, feminist hysteria and politically correct journalism portray quite a different interpretation of man:
child abuser (never mind that statistics for 1986-1993 reported by the National Center on Child Abuse Prevention Research, National Committee to Prevent Child Abuse demonstrate that 59% of persons causing children's death are female. Half of all are natural mothers, whereas natural fathers account for 23% and boyfriends 10%)
child molester (never mind the evidence that divorcing mothers often use molestation as a technique to punish the father and gain power in custody. Recovered memories and childhood abuse have been exposed as a largely shameful product of popular feminist phychology)
rapist (never mind statistics grew when rape was redefined from a violent act of penetration to a feeling of being forced, and never mind the new date rape pseudocrisis where passive, curious, resentful, drunk, or guilt-ridden women can claim rape)
sexual harasser (never mind the double standard of how much skin and pulchritude a women can blatantly display - while a man must not look or comment; and never mind how many men retreat when ask to do so)
violent (never mind tht males are the primary victims of all violent crimes except rape; wives admitted in surveys that they were more likely to assault their husbands than the other way around)
philanderer (never mind the current female vogue of intentionally producing children with no fathers under the flag of female reproductive rights)
noncommitter (never mind the legion of women who shack up with guys-and often make babies out of wedlock; and never mind the women who are sexually liberated and rely on abortions to remain free)
absentee dad (never mind the never married or divorced women who, for the sake of the new guy in their life, think it is ok to relocate, thereby depriving the father under the flag of female rights)
I am not minimizing or forgiving the evil than men do. However, our cumulative awareness and understanding of both genders' ability to perpetrate evil or stupidity has been ignored, hidden, and lied about in this growing antimale climate.
We have slowly but surely emasculated men in our society. The result has been boys growing up to be men that do not know how to be men nor know how to to treat women. The disrespect men recieve in our society leaves then not only broken and confused, but precludes attention to male orientated issues of importance. For instance, more men die from prostate cancer than women from breast cancer - yet, the headlines scream with rage against the inattention to women's health issues, when in fact less monies goes to research prostate cancer. Who cares?
Emotionally disturbed boys outnumber girls 4 to 1. Learning disabilities, the ratio is more than 2 to 1. The murder rate for teens-victims are almost all male, and is up 194% from twenty years ago. And research suggests that today's boys are deeply distressed and tragically misunderstood may be victims of their own biology and society's confusion about masculinity.
The bottom line is that male and maculinity have become synonymous with all that is wrong and evil with society, and femininity is touted as the answer. The thousands of years of medicine, law, philosophy, science, government and religion that were part of the male intellect and spiritual humanity has been separated and ignored. Instead, the focus has been placed only on sexist domination and oppression.