Is it buying them happiness though? While not representative of everyone.... I see a lot of that translating into kids who are given toys instead of attention, adult children who stay at home for years and years because home is too comfortable for them, adult children who are given schooling for what they want to do rather than what will translate into a better career, wives who are sick of being alone all of the time, the elderly who are left in a nice home but neglected by their time-poor relatives. Again... it's pretty easy to try and money away problems. I don't want my family to ever think their lives aren't as good because they don't live in a specific neighbourhood, don't live in a 3000 sq ft house, don't ride in a new vehicle, don't go to private school, don't have satellite TV, don't have brand-name clothes, or have to live in an in-law suite vs a fancy retirement palace.B-rad wrote: Ya I've noticed these people you speak of too. They are often caring for families, putting themselves second to their children, providing a home and stability for loved ones, helping their elders with health issues, and saving for the future so their next generation doesn't have to struggle. While that money isn't buying them happiness, it's buying their loved ones happiness that you don't see, it's paying bills that you don't see, it's fighting struggles that you don't see, and all that you do see is that they are working for reasons you don't know.
The reasons why I chose the path I did was a selfless one as well.... ....in my ten years, I've never missed a birthday, never missed an anniversary, send my kids off to their first day of school and every day since then, never missed any concerts/recitals/games/or tournaments... and not only attended kids activities but actively participated in them as well... and have had just about every evening to spend at home with my wife.
What's important is that you do what is right for you and your family... and that more money isn't always the answer. Time is a valuable currency.... and there are very few who have both time and money....