You're drawing some really ... interesting ... conclusions there photofly.
I don't even know what your skin color is. I never told you what mine is either. I am trying to have a discussion to try and figure out how the racism issue could be improved/solved, and as soon as someting critical is being asked, you are assuming I'm white, and I am being accused of being the problem, of not wanting to listen, ... because I dared to claim that I interpret the goal of BLM protests as that black people want to be treated equally?
photofly wrote: ↑Sun Oct 04, 2020 11:20 am
then treating people differently by the color of the skin by deciding who can say what, is preventing it from truly happening.
Legally, a lot of progress has been made in the past century. There are, as far as I know, no laws that prohibit you from doing something based on the color of your skin.
Sociologically, racism is still very much alive. This can most likely not be fixed by rules. It is a slow process, with lots of intangible aspects. Hearing/reading how a minority group refers to themselves with a term that other people get villainize for for using it, does not help to subconciously reinforce the thought that skin color doesn't matter.
Yup, minorities are just willfully not cooperating in your attempts to give them what you think their perfect world should look like, so you really you have nothing to learn. Keep your eyes and ears firmly shut and your mouth wide open, just like they are now, and everything will be ok.
And here I am engaging, or attempting to engage, attempting to learn, in a discussion with someone who seems to have an opposing view, yet refuses to actually explain his position. I guess it is easier to just label everyone as "the problem" instead of actually communicating.
Let me ask you again: do you think that using a special name that can only be used by members of your community improves the integration of said community with another community?
If we further assume that we both are white, that the racism problem is at least partially caused by members of the white community, and that we want to get rid of racism, is it therefore not important how the white community interprets recent events, and how they interpret the use of such names? If you think I misinterpret what racism is, or what BLM tries to achieve, then please, enlighten me. If we both think the same, and it turns out to be incorrect, then it is important this gets picked up by the black community such that communication can be improved.
Refusing to discuss the issue because some assumptions might be incorrect, doesn't help anyone. Racism comes from assumptions that people make. Everyone acts starting from what they believe is true or wrong. So tell me your assumptions, and tell my why the use of the n-word is beneficial to getting rid of racism.