Do you believe in true love?

hazatude · Post by **hazatude** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 3:43 pm

Eternal starcrossed shit like they write about in poetry?

Or is it all a hoax to get us to buy stuff and feel miserable?

flyinhigh · Post by **flyinhigh** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 5:20 pm

HAHA, used to.
till I became a pilot, then I found that noone wants a broke down bum with no money.

hazatude · Post by **hazatude** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 6:02 pm

See...true love trancends all earthly things. To quote Sonny and Cher,

"They say our love won't pay the rent
Before it's earned,
Our money's all been spent
I guess that's so, we don't have a pot
But at least I'm sure
Of all the things we got

Babe
I got you babe
I got you babe"

desksgo · Post by **desksgo** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 6:49 pm

Is the punch line that they broke up? Or is this complete stupidity...come on haza, there are pros around these parts that specialize in rediculous posts. They use silly pictures with well placed punch lines. Get on it.

hazatude · Post by **hazatude** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 7:17 pm

Does one need to feel shame here to voice which is in ones heart?

desksgo · Post by **desksgo** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 7:30 pm

Negative...I just did. I just was wondering...

hazatude · Post by **hazatude** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 7:33 pm

There is sadly no punch line to this thread. It is a spiritual journey that all must take to complete themselves.

desksgo · Post by **desksgo** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 7:58 pm

I got you Babe. That is your spiritual journey? That was one heck of a journey

Cool Rythms! · Post by **Cool Rythms!** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 9:08 pm

I really don't know if I believe in true love anymore. As sad as it is to say, the one woman, who was so special to me, has left me. And it was not because of me, nor anything I did. It was just bad timing. As the saying goes, "timing is everything". I realize this now, more than ever.The combination of time apart and distance drove her to decide that it just would not work between us. We were just not on the same wavelength where our feelings were concerned. I wish words could explain the pain I have been feeling over the past couple of weeks and still feel even now. I litterally wore my heart out on my sleeve for this woman. I was always so proud, to show off her pictures to relatives and friends. I was even ready to leave Montreal and move to Paris to be with her. That's the reason, I had put up a post a while back, about working in France. I was seriously thinking about renewing my UK passport and going over there to be with her. With my UK passport, I would be eligible to work anywhere in the European Community. That's how much she meant to me. I'm still thinking about that, by the way. The only difference now, is that she will not be in the picture.I know what some of you are probably thinking right about now. "This guy is crazy". You may think whatever you like, I'll understand. A good friend of mine, whom I've known since school days, sympathized with me and invited me over for coffee one afternoon. As we talked about this woman, I began to break down and cry. No woman has made me do that in years. I had to apologize to my friend and tell her that I hope she did'nt consider me any less of a man for crying. Her response was "Your just being human and reacting exactly how anyone would, when their heart has been broken. Man or woman". Lately, I have'nt been myself. I have a constant feeling of emptyness inside of me and I don't sleep well at nights. Even though this woman told me that her decision has nothing at all to do with me, as a typical man, there is always some feeling that you just did'nt do enough. I think of her everyday and nobody will ever understand how much I miss her. She is very special to me. I call her my princess, because she is absolutely gorgeous, as most Portugese women usually are. We are still in touch, however, I now know where we stand with each other and I know that it will take some time, before this pain fades away. Her mind is made up and she has made it clear, that we will never be together again. That's very hard to take. This still does'nt stop us for talking up to two or more hours at a time on the phone. My phone bill has gone though the roof. As a very close friend told me, "Time heals all pain". I sure hope so. I also hope none of you will think I'm a softy for posting this. I just wanted to get this out into the open. In a way, it does feel good inside to do that. Incidentally, if anyone knows how to go about uploading a photo, let me know and I'll post a picture of her here.

just another pilot · Post by **just another pilot** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 9:46 pm

I love beer - truely.

jimdandy · Post by **jimdandy** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 11:13 pm

Gee brother, that is sad.

I can sympathize and also understand where ur comming form. A bad break up was part of the reason i got into flying

. My mother always told me that "pilots are always on the go, and hardly home to be with family"

. At that point in my life I had decided to never have a family, and instead have a career. Now as I am getting older, I want that closeness of a woman, a wife, a family, stay in one place for more than a few years. Sometimes it doesen't seem like ya can win. But then again I wake up everyday and realize how much fun I am gonna have flying, leaving all my troubles on the ground, in another city etc.

Be happy ur in Beautiful Montreal with all those nice looking and acting women.

I would trade Toronto women for Montreal women any day.
Cheer up bro, it'll be all good

PS> I just found the new smiles, they are funny as hell, good job ac

yycflyguy · Post by **yycflyguy** » Mon Apr 04, 2005 11:44 pm

hazatude wrote:See...true love trancends all earthly things. To quote Sonny and Cher,

Cher is also quoted as saying:

"I've been rich, I've been poor....... rich is better."

I have tried the poor part of her philosophy, I am ready to try the latter.

hazatude · Post by **hazatude** » Tue Apr 05, 2005 3:06 am

That's sad stuff, Cool. I hope that all works out and you find what you need.

No Conflict · Post by **No Conflict** » Tue Apr 05, 2005 5:03 am

CR,

Sucks, but life only gets better....

Just another pilot's got it right though:

I love beer - truely.

canoe · Post by **canoe** » Tue Apr 05, 2005 6:20 am

Cool Rythms! · Post by **Cool Rythms!** » Tue Apr 05, 2005 6:43 am

Thanks Canoe. I appreciate everyone's well wishes. I'm still trying to deal with the pain and dissapointment of losing this girl. I actually had a dream about her yesterday when I went to sleep. It was weird, because the dream seemed to last all night. I woke up twice during the night and each time I went back to sleep, the dream seemed to pick up from where it left off. By the way, I'm still trying to figure out how I can post a picture of this girl here. I have a really nice one of the two of us together. This obviously, would give away my true identity, but I really don't care at this point.

Cool Rythms! · Post by **Cool Rythms!** » Tue Apr 05, 2005 8:37 am

I thought I'd remove that link, just to avoid anymore senseless, stupid, idiotic, immature remarks!!!

Johnny · Post by **Johnny** » Tue Apr 05, 2005 9:35 am

CR - I hope your pain doesn't last too long. They say time heals all wounds, but somehow the clock always runs slower when you're suffering.

That said, time for a happier post. Haza, I met a girl and fell in love with her (truly, madly, deeply, as they say). I'm now married to her. I know others in the same situation.

I think it all depends on timing, luck, and perspective.

. ._ · Post by **. ._** » Tue Apr 05, 2005 9:35 am

Edited because I'm not feeling so negative today...

Miss Mae · Post by **Miss Mae** » Tue Apr 05, 2005 10:10 am

It's a good thing to hear so many positive posts on this topic. My heart goes out to you CR....hope things work out for the best.

Tango01 · Post by **Tango01** » Tue Apr 05, 2005 10:11 am

CR:

It seems like you went all out for this girl. Personally, I think she wanted to break up with you regardless. You were willing to do all that for her, and she responds back like this? You deserve better man, remember, you will get over her and move on. There is plenty of fish to go around. Let the games begin.

Good luck

T01

Cool Rythms! · Post by **Cool Rythms!** » Tue Apr 05, 2005 10:22 am

Yeah, there are plenty of fish in the sea, as the saying goes. But this girl was no fish, she was a Mermaid. There are'nt too many Mermaids in the sea. She was'nt really going to break up with me regardless. We were both on the same wavelength at one point. The two things I blame for her changing her mind are time and distance. With her being in Paris and me here in Montreal, she did'nt see it working out.

By the way, did that link work?

Guido · Post by **Guido** » Tue Apr 05, 2005 12:42 pm

CR, yup, the link did work. I can certainly feel your pain as well, I think the majority of us go through it at some point. I dated a girl for three years, we figured we'd probably get married... then she left me for an ex of hers, and now they're married! Go figure!

Now I've got another gal, who is absolutely wonderful... it's long-distance now, but it's well worth it. The Internet is a wonderful way to keep in contact while we're apart.

hazatude · Post by **hazatude** » Tue Apr 05, 2005 2:08 pm

Heavy drinking is a good cure for heartache. That and strippers.

desksgo · Post by **desksgo** » Tue Apr 05, 2005 2:31 pm

Cool Rythms! wrote:

By the way, did that link work?

Link worked just fine, she is a beautfiul woman. All I can say is I understand.