Yeah... I don't think you want to be a Transwestite. I know a few people who were cured from aviation completely by working there.
tuskegee0147, unfortunately I don't have an answer for you. I got my break by already working for the company that had hired me in another capacity. Counting school, this is my 15th year in aviation... and I am still working at an entry-level 703 company... so keep that in mind when you get impatient about how your career is progressing.
Networking, luck, and going where nobody else wants to go is what is going to set you apart from the hundreds, if not thousands of other low timers looking for the same seats in this grandiose game of musical chairs.
Look for companies that have a single engine piston aircraft that you can start building PIC time on. If they don't have a twin, your odds are more likely of getting a job since pilots jump ship after a season or two and lots don't bother applying. PIC is gold and you should look for that first rather than a twin cojo job... it will help a great deal down the road if you want to go into the turbine IFR world.
Actually going there is a big deal... we get hundreds of resumes a year.. but the only people who we hired (when we were looking... not this year so far) showed up ready to work. If all somebody is going to do is carpet bomb the inbox with resumes, they aren't worth the time unless there is something really spectacular on that resume.
You're going to get rejected. You are going to burn up gallons of gas, miles of road, and hundreds of dollars going on a road trip looking for work, but all it takes is one job offer to make it all worth while.